MISTRESS TROY
Professional Dominatrix - New York City
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HOW TO CONTACT ME
This page updated:
May 8, 2008

Photo: Misa Martin
I do not publish My PHONE NUMBER on My web site. I provide it only to submissives/masochists/slaves once they have proven themselves worthy of My consideration for a telephone interview.
I prefer O/our initial contact to be via e-mail; however I provide My mailing address for those who wish to contact Me through the U. S. Postal Service. If you decide to correspond with Me via regular mail, you must include a size 10 (business size) SASE (self-addressed, stamped envelope) and a $50 tribute in order to receive My attention.
FOR SESSIONS:
you must carefully read My ENTIRE web site ("Stories" and OWK related information are optional) and submit the proper Introduction E-mail to Me. If this is not carried out precisely, I will not respond.Everyone I see must go through My screening process. If your Mistress “puts in a good word” for you I will take it into consideration; however do not use Her to try and see Me without going through the process listed on My “Appointments” page. I will explain My procedure for meeting new submissives to your Mistress and ask Her to advise you to visit My web site.
TO CANCEL A SESSION OR FOR ANY OTHER URGENT REASON:
For those of you fortunate enough to possess My phone number, I generally receive phone messages quicker than e-mails so you should always call first, then follow up with an e-mail, if you are contacting Me to cancel a session or for any other urgent matter.INTERVIEW REQUESTS:
I am always flattered to receive requests from publications (fetish as well as mainstream), television/radio shows and research writers for interviews and appearances, however I am an extremely private and discrete Mistress. In order to protect My privacy as well as that of My clients, I decline all requests for interviews. If I do not respond to your e-mail within two weeks, I am not interested in participating in your project.GENERAL CORRESPONDENCE:
As stated a number of times throughout My web site, I have little time for lengthy correspondence. Also, I do not enjoy sitting at My computer and typing. I DO enjoy hearing from My regular submissives/masochists/slaves via e-mail but it is rare that you will receive an immediate reply from Me. I will respond to e-mails as soon as possible however you should not be surprised if it takes Me a week or longer.DUNGEON RENTAL:
My Dungeon is NOT available to rent.LINK EXCHANGES:
I only use Text Links, i.e. NO BANNERS. I prefer to exchange links with individuals and businesses I have had first hand experience with, however I will place links to web sites that I am familiar with -- and who have a good/well-known reputation -- under a section stating such on My Links Page. I do My best to avoid sending people to web sites with “pop-ups” and an abundance of advertising.If you would like to exchange a TEXT link, contact Me via e-mail and I will try to get back to you within a month.
SOLICITATIONS & SPAM:
I immediately delete unwanted solicitations and spam e-mail upon viewing the Subject Line. Therefore, if you have a legitimate reason for contacting Me, use the Subject Line as instructed on My web site.WEB-MASTERS, -MISTRESSES AND -DESIGNERS:
I create and maintain My own web site. I am not in need of a web-slave or company to provide this service to Me. I will not respond to your e-mails.FEMALES SEEKING EMPLOYMENT AND/OR TRAINING AS A PRO DOMME:
I am not currently employing or training Women as Dominatrixes.
I regularly receive e-mails from Women requesting information about "how to become a Dominatrix." I may eventually post some information and links here but I do not have the time to answer each individual e-mail.For now, I will share these thoughts: Being a Dominatrix is not something to be taken lightly; it is not something one should consider doing "for a quick buck" or as a "part-time gig until you decide what you really want to do." You should not use the Scene as a mere source of income but rather start by exploring it on a personal level if you feel it is something that truly resonates within you. There are many resources available -- books, classes, websites, fetish/BDSM shops -- for the person who is sincerely interested in learning about and experiencing the very many facets of "The Scene." Instead of looking for "a job" as a Dominatrix, discover whether or not you have that deep, burning, undeniable need to participate in BDSM activities or if your interest is little more than someone telling you that "you look like you would make a good Dominatrix."
If you wish EXTENDED CONVERSATION with Me, see My Phone Sessions page.
you must type in MY E-MAIL ADDRESS by hand:
(this is an attempt to prevent spam)
Troy [a] MistressTroy . com
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One final reminder before you e-mail Me: If you are serious about seeing Me, you must carefully read My entire web site ("Stories" and OWK related information are optional) and carry out all of the instructions precisely; otherwise, you will not receive a reply of any kind from Me. It is still remarkable to Me the enormous number of you who claim to be sincere, submissive and intelligent and yet you clearly have not familiarized yourself with My web site and the proper protocol for gaining an audience with Me. The majority of you are simply wasting My time.
I only open E-MAIL ATTACHMENTS from people I know well. Even when that is the case, you must include a very clear description of what you are sending so I do not mistake it for a computer virus -- which I will immediately delete.
I appreciate the thought however I DO NOT follow Links to e-Greeting Cards. Please do not send e-cards for any occasion -- I will delete without looking at them.
MY MAILING ADDRESS IS:
MS. TROY
PO BOX 604
NEW YORK NY 10028-0006
USAUPS and FedEx DO NOT ship to PO Boxes. Do not use these companies to send packages to Me. you should send mail and packages to Me via the US Postal Service.
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