MISTRESS TROY
Professional Dominatrix - New York City


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RESPECTING YOUR MISTRESS AND HER TIME
This page updated: May 14, 2006

Only speak when spoken to

While the following information relates to Me specifically, it may also be useful if you are searching for a compatible Mistress or if you are already in an established Mistress/submissive relationship.

It is not uncommon for a Professional Dominatrix to receive well over 80 telephone calls per day in response to advertisements and websites displaying Her phone number. While My phone number is not publicly displayed in any commercial venue, I still receive at least 40 legitimate phone calls and e-mails on a daily basis. Although most Houses of Dominance and some independent Mistresses employ someone to answer the telephone, reply to e-mail messages and schedule sessions, no one other than Myself answers My telephone, reads My e-mail or schedules My appointments.

I am a Controlling Dominant Sadist and I derive great personal pleasure from the scenes that I engage in and from maintaining a full "male harem." I believe it is extremely important to develop a mutual trust with My submissives, masochists and slaves and to treat them all with equal respect.

In order for you to receive this special privilege, answering each phone message and e-mail requires a total of at least 3 hours of My time per day. This is based on a conservative estimate of 3 - 4 minutes for each response (I frequently spend much more than 4 minutes) and does not include the time necessary for screening and instructing those worthy individuals who have been granted a session. I make an additional commitment when I conduct a first time phone interview, for which the average time is 25 - 35 minutes.

I do not request a tribute for My time for any of these considerations; however, I offer phone sessions and telephone appointments to those submissives wishing lengthy phone conversations with Me.

In order to ensure that a session is a clean, safe, and satisfying experience for all involved, there are many procedures that I -- and other Professional Dominas -- must adhere to on a daily basis.

To properly maintain My Dungeon requires the following:

  • A minimum of 45 - 60 minutes for Personal and dungeon preparation directly preceding each session.

  • Approximately 1 - 1½ hours of thorough cleaning and sanitizing after each session -- longer for more equipment-intensive scenes.

  • General upkeep of My dungeon: which includes ordering and/or picking-up supplies, laundry, procuring new toys, wardrobe and equipment, and attending workshops, seminars and safety training programs.

  • Administrative tasks: including screening potential submissives, scheduling, advertising, photo shoots, web site updates, and bookkeeping.

Unfortunately, this results in too little time for actual sessions, much less lengthy phone and e-mail correspondence, not to mention additional requests such as dinner invitations and other time consuming activities, which only exacerbates this already difficult situation.

My submissives, masochists and slaves are chosen from a select group of only the best and the brightest. Now that the above situation has been made clear, I expect you to behave accordingly.

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Introduction

Appointments | Bondage | Calendar | Gift List | How To Make An Appointment With A Dominatrix

Important Information | Links | OWK | Phone Sessions | Photos | Session Rules | Specific Fetishes | Stories | Taboo

How To Contact Me