MISTRESS TROY
Professional Dominatrix - New York City
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RESPECTING YOUR MISTRESS AND HER TIME
This page updated: November 25, 2009
Mistress Troy Managing Her harem
This page will inform you about how I manage My time and explain why it often takes Me so long to reply to e-mails.
I am a Controlling Dominant Sadist who maintains a full “male harem” of personal submissives along with those who serve Me in My capacity of skilled, experienced and understanding professional. I derive great personal pleasure from all the scenes in which I engage and I believe it is extremely important to develop a mutual trust with My submissives/masochists/slaves as well as to treat everyone with the same respect that I expect from those who I allow into My life.
I put forth great effort and intention to develop a connection with those who serve Me. I insist upon sessions that are clean, safe, and satisfying experiences for all involved, while providing the utmost discretion and privacy with all interactions. To this end, unlike many Houses of Domination and some independent Mistresses who employ someone and/or use slaves to help manage clients, I have no help with this:
I always answer My own telephone when available and personally return calls -- My telephone messages are heard only by Me.
No one else reads or responds to My e-mails.
I schedule My own appointments and juggle the changes when “things happen.”
I personally screen all applicants.
I live a well-rounded and balanced life. BDSM is an integral part of it, however, I do have other interests and matters that require My attention. Additionally, I do spend time with friends and family, some of whom are involved in BDSM and others who have no interest whatsoever. I also practice yoga regularly -- up to 2 hours per day when possible -- and travel often. It is My desire to fit a great deal into My life; in order to accomplish this, I am extremely organized and precise with My time and expect the same from those who serve Me.My days are full and booked weeks -- often months -- in advance. To better manage your expectations, the following information will help illustrate how I operate:
When I am with someone (whether it is friend, relative, submissive, client) or at an appointment (be it manicure/pedicure, doctor, massage, accountant, workshop), My attention is focused solely on that person, activity or event. I do not answer or make calls or check e-mails during these times. you will receive the same special privilege of My full attention when we are in session together -- we will not be interrupted nor will I be distracted.
Sessions in My dungeon generally run between 3-15 hours, with occasional 2- to 3-day trips for out-of-town clients. Sessions alone create large blocks of time where I do not receive or return any messages. Outside of actual session time, to properly maintain My Dungeon and manage My harem requires the following:
A minimum of 1 hour for personal and dungeon preparation directly preceding each session, generally more.
Approximately 1½ hours of thorough cleaning and sanitizing after each session -- longer for more equipment-intensive scenes.
General upkeep of My dungeon, which includes:
- ordering and/or picking-up supplies
- laundry
- supervision of bathroom cleaning
- general cleaning of My space, vacuuming, mopping, dusting etc.
- regular cleaning and conditioning of leather toys and clothing
- procuring new toys, wardrobe and equipment
- repair and maintenance of equipment
- attending classes, workshops, seminars and safety training programs
- - scheduling and planning sessions
Administrative tasks, including:
- maintaining contract with established submissives/masochists/slaves
- website updates
- bookkeeping
- screening potential submissives*A note on screening new applicants: while I receive several “Introduction E-mails” per week, I see only a handful of worthy new individuals each year. My screening process is rigorous and I spend approximately 45-60 minutes reviewing each application, making notes and arranging phone calls. In addition to the time required for this, the actual Phone Interviews generally range from 25-45 minutes in length, occasionally longer. I do not require tribute for the time I spend screening supplicants, and not all follow through to the end. I do focus My energy on established submissives/masochists who have proven themselves worthy, some of whom have served Me loyally for over 13 years.*
I have only a desktop computer and a landline telephone for communication. I rarely use a cell phone, I never text message and I do not posses any handheld devices on which to constantly check e-mail. When all the above circumstances are combined, there are literally only a few minutes in My average day, if that, to read and return e-mails -- some days I never get to the computer. Therefore, it can take several days -- or even weeks -- for Me to “catch up on e-mails” since they accumulate on a daily basis. The majority of e-mails I receive require a minimum of 10 minutes of My time to compose a thoughtful and appropriate response, resulting in a large consumption of My time.
In order to handle e-mails that require more than simple scheduling exchanges, I incorporate into My monthly planning blocks of several-hour time periods during which I sit at My desk to “catch up.” I do not request a tribute for this type of consideration; however, you must keep in mind that My only source of income is My Tribute, which is calculated per hour based upon My time (similar to an attorney, therapist or consultant). For deserving submissives, I am generous with My time; however, I can not accept invitations to meals, travel or other activities without being compensated. For those who wish lengthy phone conversations with Me, I offer telephone appointments, click here for more information.
My submissives, masochists and slaves are chosen from a select group of only the best and the brightest. Now that the above situation has been made clear, I expect you to behave accordingly.
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