Specific Fetishes and Interests
While this page may appear to be a random selection of fetishes and BDSM-related interests, it is not. In My experience as a lifestyle and professional Femdom, these have been some of the most commonly inquired about topics; therefore, I have tried to expand on them a little and will continue to add to this page as time allows. If something does not interest Me whatsoever, you will find it on My "Taboo" page.
For well-mannered and respectful spankophiles, spankos, and spankees, I offer a "spanking-only" session option with Me as The Spanker. This is a 45-minute session focused solely and completely on spanking, whether it be a domestic discipline over-the-knee (OTK) spanking, a severe judicial caning with no warm up, or any other agreed upon style and/or type of spanking. Along with My bare hand, I have a formidable collection of spanking implements including leather belts, wooden spoons, hairbrushes, rulers, canes, crops, paddles, flails, single-tails (snake, signal, and bullwhips), tawses, straps, and so on. Light bondage (bound wrists and/or ankles only) may be incorporated into the scene.
The 45-minute session length will be strictly enforced and the required Tribute is $300. This includes "chat" and decompression time. If you feel this is not enough time, you should plan to book My standard 2-hour minimum with Me. If you are disrespectful (or oblivious) of My time, I will resort to using an egg timer and/or require you to book the 2-hour minimum for future spankings.
To request a "spanking-only" session if we have not previously met, you must send an "Introduction E-mail" as instructed on My "In Person Sessions" page and be prepared to follow through with My screening process. This includes submitting a $100.00 non-refundable Tribute for a Phone Interview.
I look forward to reddening your bottom.
FEET / FOOT FETISHISTS
I am extremely discerning about where I place My feet and I enjoy the adoration of only a very few select and exceptional foot slaves and fetishists. I do not allow food, liquids or insects to be eaten or licked off My feet or any other part of My body, nor do I tolerate slobbering and drool.
I will accept Introductions from foot fetishists and connoisseurs; however, if you are not naturally submissive then you must at the very least be sincere, polite and appreciative.
I receive professional pedicures on a regular basis. I do not want or need a “pedicure slave” to perform My pedicures. You may be allowed to pay for My pedicures and possibly even arrange and/or accompany Me during My appointment(s), but these privileges are not easily earned.
Nylons / Tights / Pantyhose / Stockings & Garter Belts
When adorning My long, slender legs with hosiery, I wear only the finest nylons, stockings, pantyhose, leggings and tights available. My predominately black collection of "leg coverings" comprises a selection of some of the world’s most exquisite hosiery. While My personal preference is an elegant, commanding appearance, I have a variety of styles and denier to accommodate almost any respectful request, including Cuban heel, back seam and fishnet. From the sheerest, silkiest stockings to the most opaque, lustrous tights, you will be mesmerized while kneeling before Me.
For a list of My favorite hosiery and additional related information, see My "Stockings, Pantyhose and Tights" Page.
If you desire a specific color, style or pattern that I do not already own, you should plan to send Me the particular item(s) in advance or present them to Me upon your arrival for our session.
I have a breathtaking collection of black leather gloves in various styles. Your heart will race at the sight of My sexy and stern leather gloves as they adorn My hands and long arms. Perhaps you will adore My supple gloves as you kneel before Me and succumb to My mental and physical bondage. You may even feel My gloves on your flesh as they brush against your body or slap your face. Possibly you will be allowed to kiss My gloves. If, however, you request permission to lick or suck My leather-engulfed fingers or engage in any other experiences that will soil or damage My exquisite leather gloves, you must present a pair of gloves to Me that I will wear only with you. Two places you can purchase fine Italian leather gloves are Sermoneta (shops in Manhattan, Boston, and Italian cities) and Solo Classe (an online boutique), although I will consider other types of gloves as well.
My Glove Size: 8
See My Gift List for specific pairs of gloves I want.
Perhaps you will perform acts for Me that are utterly ridiculous and embarrassing, or maybe your feelings of humiliation are the result of My subtle, nuanced whispers while you lie restricted and helpless in My presence. Your humiliation may be the consequences of a miscreant's transgression or an amusing display commanded by Mistress for sport and merriment. Since there are many interpretations of “humiliation,” in your Introduction E-mail you must include an explanation of “humiliating” scenarios you have experienced and/or fantasized about as well as “keywords,” “phrases,” “name-calling” and any other specific information describing your particular scene.
Shopping trips can be fun -- with the right servant. I have enjoyed many shopping excursions with a few well-suited submissives over the years. These special outings are almost always the result of relationships that have evolved over a long period of time. However, there are also individuals who understandably wish to take Me on shopping sprees -- for shoes, boots, fetish and other women’s apparel, electronics, home furnishings, etc. -- with little interest in a dungeon setting or the associated SM activities. This form of service can work out delightfully well if certain conditions are met to My satisfaction.
If we have never met in person and your desire is to indulge Me in a day or more of shopping as you follow close behind with a loaded wallet, you will first have to perform these steps:
- You should send an “Introduction E-mail” as instructed on My “In Person Sessions” page, clearly stating that you wish to be My “in person shopping slave/servant"
- You will be required to submit a $100.00 tribute for My time to screen you, as described on My “In Person Sessions” page
- You must book time to meet in My dungeon before our first shopping trip in order for Me to determine if you are sincere and if your behavior and attitude is acceptable to Me to be out in public with you
Once these requirements have been met to my satisfaction, the multitudinous joys of serving Me as I leisurely explore Manhattan’s chicest shopping venues can be yours.
I no longer see couples, only individuals. Regardless of your gender, you must follow precisely the instructions listed on My "In Person Sessions" page if you wish an audience with Me.
I love to orchestrate scenes involving multiple male submissives. Unfortunately, following through with such an experience is frequently too much for many males to handle and they tend to "disappear," regardless of how deep the desire runs within them. As a result of this annoying pattern and the fact that it takes a great deal of time and effort on My part to schedule such an event, My full tribute, along with that of any other FemDomme I involve, is required before I will schedule the time or the other male sub(s). The entire Tribute is non-refundable no matter what happens.
If you are interested in scenarios involving multiple males, whether you are ready for the reality or not, you should make Me aware in your "Introduction E-mail."
Sessions involving multiple Mistresses are available. These are some of the Dommes you may request to join us:
- Mistress Venus
- Mistress Darcy
- Mistress Nicolette
- Mistress Inga Larsson
- Mistress Ayn (in Atlanta)
- Mistress Ultra Violet (in Atlanta)
The full Tribute is required for the entire amount of time booked with each Dominatrix. You should put the Tribute for each Dominatrix in a separate, unsealed envelope clearly marked with the name of the Domme for who it is intended.
A deposit is required for all multiple-Mistress sessions.
Travel expenses may be required for one or more Dommes. If relevant, this will be discussed and the required amount determined prior to booking.
While My website is geared toward the male submissive/masochist, I adore the small group of women who serve and see Me for professional BDSM sessions. I expect no less from My female applicants than from the males, so be sure to read My website and follow all the instructions when contacting Me.
For males who seek sessions with submissive or "switch" females, I do not provide such, you should look elsewhere.
I do not perform total gender transformation -- more specifically: no wigs and no makeup (you may bring your own). However, I do enjoy it when male submissives wear panties and stockings in a discreet manner. I also enjoy dressing My submissives in heels, stockings, panties and/or corsets in order to provoke feelings of confinement, discomfort and embarrassment. I will incorporate various gender-bending training techniques and vocabulary as I judge appropriate.
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CLEANING BOY / HOUSEBOY (OR GIRL)
I do not barter "cleaning" or other services for "session time." A true service-sub, houseboy/girl, or sissy-maid will find deep satisfaction and fulfillment in a job well-done for his/her Mistress. Your reward is being allowed to continue serving.
If you have skills to offer that are worth My thoughtful consideration, you may visit this page, DOMESTIC SERVICE POSITIONS, to learn about what I require and how to apply for a service position.
Boots, Leather, Bondage and Spanking
Boots, leather, bondage and spanking have been My strongest personal fetishes for as long as I can remember, even as I restrained and tormented boys of My own age during My youth. If you share these fetishes, a solid foundation will exist for us to move forward.
I possess the following electrical boxes and a violet wand:
- Folsom PSG-MAX
- Folsom PSG-202
- P.E.S. Power Box
- ErosTek ET-302R Two Channel Remote E-Stim
- ErosTek ET-312
- ErosTek ET-232
I also have an assortment of electrode attachments. Due to sterilization related issues, electric anal attachments should not be shared, therefore I do not provide them. If this is something you wish to explore, I recommend that you purchase your desired equipment from any of these companies (I will provide guidance with your selection, if needed):
I only use electrical equipment designed for use on living creatures and I use it exclusively on humans. My arsenal includes electric remote dog training collars for the purpose of modifying your behavior.
I have neither a TENS or EMS unit nor an Electric Fly Swatter. I will not use a Relaxacisor, Taser, or Telephone Magneto. I do not own a Cattle Prod or Stun Gun, but I will consider using these items if you purchase them for Me and we have a thorough discussion beforehand.
I do not send electrical currents through the body above the waistline.
The electric toys available today make electric play seemingly “risk free,” especially in comparison with the devices used in the not-so-distant past; however, sending electrical currents through the body is edge-play and has the potential to cause severe bodily harm, and even death, if not executed in an educated and mindful manner. If you wish to engage in electric play with Me, you must inform Me of any history with the following conditions:
- Heart attack
- Diagnosis of heart rhythm irregularities (arrhythmia or dysrhythmia) or episodes of atrial or ventricular fibrillation
- Enlarged heart
- Heart problems
- Heart disease
- Implanted electronic devices (i.e. pacemakers, defibrillators, drug pumps, etc.)
- Brain disorders
- Nervous system disorders
- A history of strokes or seizures, or similar medical conditions
- Metal parts in your body
you should also let Me know if you have ever been non-consensually tortured with electricity.
Tickling is the fetish/activity for which I have probably received the most requests and inquiries since I started offering professional Dominatrix sessions in 1995. Interestingly, not a single one of these contacts has resulted in a session of any kind. In My experience, e-mails from "tickle fetishists" and for "tickling-only sessions" have been a waste of My time and this has soured My interest in tickling sessions. However, over the years I have enjoyed many sessions in which My subject was bound and helpless and tickling evolved organically in a way that was fun, intensely torturous, and even a bit erotic. So, to answer the question "do you do tickling sessions?" yes I do, with you as the ticklee and Me as the tickler.
It is simple to book a tickling session with Me; just go to My "In Person Sessions" page and follow the instructions given there.
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