Mistress Troy's BDSM & Fetish Related Links
Mistresses / Dominatrixes / Fem-Dommes / Goddesses / Dominas
When contacting any Female Dominant, remember that all Women are unique and maintain their own set of rules, requirements, and procedures. Pay attention and follow the specific commands of each Domina you contact.
These are just a few of the professional Dommes I know personally who I believe are currently doing sessions:
United States
Alphabetical order by state, then by Domme name:
California
Miss Grey, San Francisco
Mistress Inga Larsson, Los Angeles
Mistress Vinyl Queen, San Francisco
Connecticut
Mistress Suzanne, Winsted (Northwestern), Connecticut
Georgia
Mistress Ayn, Atlanta (on European tour in 2024-2025)
Atlanta Dungeon, Atlanta
New York
Mistress Natalie, Manhattan
Pennsylvania
Domina Irene Boss, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Mistress Tissa, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
United Kingdom
Baroness Essex, Near London, England
DOMINATRIX DIRECTORIES
In alphabetical order:
BDSM Professionals - Mistress Tissa in Pennsylvania created this website in December 2023 to meet the need for a ProDomme and BDSM-specific website directory. Please visit often and support this website, as its purpose is to support us!
Dickie Virgin FemDom Guide - Worldwide list of Pro Dommes, classifieds, dickieTube, and more!
Domina Superior, International Mistress Directory
Femdom City - "The mother of all femdom in the net"
Fetish Kingdom - Fetish & Mistress Directory
Sin Search - Mistress Directory
FEMDOM, BDSM & FETISH RELATED
In alphabetical order:
Dan's Femdom Links, this website has not been updated since 2021, but it has some interesting links.
Domina.ms - The Buzz, FemDom Chat Board
Femdom Resource, The Beauty of Dominant Women, a blog
FetLife, the Most Popular Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community.
Janus, home of the longest running spanking magazine in the world
Max Fisch - The Hang, This once very popular FemDom chat board has been dying a slow death for years. People are moving to The Buzz at Domina.ms (see the link above).
The English Mansion, Mistress Sidonia Von Bork's Domain
FEMDOM / BDSM EDUCATION
Anne O Nomis, Based in Melbourne, Australia
DomCon LA, Based in Los Angeles
Simone Justice, based in Fort Worth, Texas
FEMDOM DESTINATIONS
Baroness Essex, Essex, England
FemDom Mansion, Atlanta - The Proprietress of FemDom Mansion is currently on a European tour and all events are on hold until she returns.
Inana Retreat (formerly Villa Domme), Portugal in June 2025, possibly other locations to come
MY FAVORITE FETISH & BDSM SHOPS
In alphabetical order:
Babeland
Lower East Side: 94 Rivington Street (between Orchard & Ludlow Streets), New York City
Other locations listed on their website.
Extensive collection of toys and books geared towards Women.
Canes 4 Pain by WhypDancer
Exceptional quality rattan disciplinary canes for spanking & BDSM.
A small, independent, woman-owned business in the U.S.A.
Church of Sinvention
High quality leather BDSM products. Handmade in Stratford, Ontario, Canada.
Dark Garden Unique Corsetry
(415) 431-7684 (SNUG), San Francisco
Custom made corsets are a very special investment and should last a lifetime if cared for properly. Once an order is placed
with Dark Garden, it takes a minimum 8 weeks for the process to be completed and the corset to arrive in My hands.
Fernando Berlin Boots
Greifswalder Str. 9, Berlin
Breathtakingly beautiful boots made of high-quality leather and made-to-measure.
The Leather Man
(212) 243-5339, 111 Christopher Street, New York City
Since 1965, SM-leather-fetish clothing and gear.
LUX Tenebrae Leather
Bristol, U.K.
Luxury leather handmade in their Bristol studio.
Mr. S Leather
(415) 863-7764, San Francisco
Serious BDSM gear!
Purple Passion
(212) 807-0486, 211 West 20th Street (between 7th & 8th Avenues), New York City
An extensive and well-priced collection of all things fetish and BDSM. I check here first for all My related needs.
Steelwerks Extreme
Based in Canada
Handmade custom male chastity devices.
Organizations
In alphabetical order:
Association of Sites Advocating Child Protection (ASACP)
Founded in 1996, ASACP is a non-profit organization dedicated to online child protection, battling child pornography through
various means.
Black Rose (BR)
Based in the Washington DC area. Black Rose is a not-for-profit organization which provides a forum for the many different expressions
of power in love and play.
The Eulenspiegel Society (TES)
TES is a not-for-profit organization located in NYC which promotes sexual liberation for all adults. Especially for people who enjoy
consensual BDSM. The group was founded in 1971 by Pat Bond.
Free Speech Coalition (FSC)
The Free Speech Coalition is the trade association for the adult entertainment industry.
Manhattan Alternative
A network of therapeutic service providers in New York City who are sex-positive, affirmative, and have expertise
related to issues that kink, poly, consensually non-monogamous, trans, gender non-conforming, and/or LGBQ-identified
individuals face.
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)
An advocacy organization with the goal to fight for sexual freedom and privacy rights for all adults who engage in safe, sane and
consensual behavior.
New England Leather Alliance (NELA)
Based in the Boston, MA area. NELA is an organization dedicated to making a safe place in the world for all leather/fetish/sm people
through education, advocacy, and charitable giving.
The Society of Janus (SOJ)
The Society of Janus is a San Francisco-based support and education organization for people interested in learning about BDSM.
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